Friday 29 May 2009

Right Before My Eyes....

I saw something very interesting today at lunch. I was just hanging out with Keisha like we usually do on Friday afternoons, eating in Burger King (mmmm Triple Whopper with cheese) and I'm just minding my business when this guy comes in. Totally unassuming, he just goes up to the counter, orders his food and starts back towards the door. Nobody's thinking of anything, as he walks past this lady who has her back turned to him standing up talking to the next table, with her phone on the table beside her food. In one quick motion before anyone could do anything, he just reached out, snatched her phone, and disappeared out the front door really before anyone could move. Then suddenly like four guys jumped up and tried to chase the guy but he was long gone down the street before they could do anything about it, and the woman just stood there with her hand on her head looking utterly distraught.

Now about this: A) that's bold. REAL bold. The fact that the District courthouse is like two blocks away plus we're surrounded by police everywhere, it's insane. B) It was a public place. Like really, really public. He must've planned that heist real quick to figure out how to move away without being caught by like all of the 50 people in the place.

So yeah that was that. The next one, I won't dwell over just mention it andmove on. It started like the usual, I invited this woman to come over and do my hair after talking with her on MetroAccess and she came over did my hair and I paid her $45.00 and she left at like 11. She calls back at 12:30 saying her car is towed and she's stuck in Temple Hills and she needs more money ($45.00) blah, blah. I gave her $60.00. She hasn't returned any phone calls and it's been a week. What a ripoff. I can only hope that me trying to be nice to her repays itself in some weird way.

Still working towards Costa Rica, gotta pay them the $300.00 Monday for the rest of the trip. But that's pretty much done. And now I'm just starting the activities to begin the closing of my time here in DC.

Went to hang out with Mr. Pete last night. That was...fun, I guess. I really could've stayed home but I wanted to support him. And he tried terrible last night to start making out with me and whatnot. I stopped that. HARD. I was like, "I don't get into making out with friends. If I kiss you it's a greeting and nothing more. We're not together. I don't want to get into that with you. You know this. And you should be aware of it." He didn't like that very much. But I don't give a damn. He knew how I felt from our first meeting when I chilled with him in Union Station. He's far too old for me, and our lifestyles don't really match. I don't really get into workholics anymore, not after that idiot VJ. So yeah, I went for pizza and conversation (with coincendentally, he left to go get the pizza and I'm flipping through the channels looking for HBO. I find it, and what are they doing on there? Giving demonstrations for the proper technique of ANAL SEX! I was like....what in the hell? It was so random, and I was like, "of all the freakin' time I don't want to look at something about sex--wasn't trying to give Pete no damn ideas--it comes on anyway.) and left after a few hours.

So the next big news. My parents bought a new house. Well, technically it's not a house they bought. They purchased a townhouse in Regency Hills over there in Cary (which is ironically the place that my mom wanted to end up anyway with the supposed "castle." So that was all good. But with that, they're serious about selling the Morrisville house (I love that house!) and she claims they're going to force Shon to get a room somewhere in the area and leave him on his own--which I don't know if I truly believe that. Speaking of which, he claims he's been studying for the new SAT II which debuts next Saturday, June 6th (granted it was the first time I'd ever heard of him saying such things) but this point, he knows what he needs to do. If he doesn't do it, I'm not going to.

Till later.

DRC.

Monday 18 May 2009

And Now We Take a Loop on the Rollercoaster of Life!

Okay, so like I said I'm going to try and keep this up as continually as I can, since things are getting more and more interesting as the days go by. I had some very ugly moments last week and things seem now to be on a big upswing, which is even better. So let's see. Where to start.

Shon: This is by far becoming the biggest problem at the current moment. In an interesting conversation, I called Mom (the day after Mother's Day mind you since she didn't answer her phone) and we had a long conversation in which she divulged to me that they're are going to sell the Rapidan Court house due to a decline in the housing market and appreciation value, which totally makes sense. She is saying that they haven't decided completely where they want to move as of yet but they don't plan on having the house too much longer than than the summertime. Which means...Shon may not have a plan to go when he leaves my house. Coupled with this, mom wants to send him to Pembroke (or any 4 year university actually) but we found out rather dishearteningly that he's never even taken the SAT or the ACT in high school, so until he does, he can't apply for a 4 year university. Which puts his situation from bad to worse. And I've told him that in the next three months, he'd have to:

*Get the materials for the test
*Study REALLY hard
*Pass the test well
*Apply to UNC-Pembroke
*Get accepted
*Apply for housing
*Apply for financial aid

And generally be ready to go when August rolls around so he can go to school and do something. But....I don't see that happening. I can already see that he's going to drag around and not do what he's supposed to (I mean I told him all this information like a week ago and the SAT test is June 6th), and has he done ANYTHING since then? ....you already know the answer to that one. So you know what I'm gonna do? Not a damn thing. He can make his choice by refusing to do anything, and so as a result, he can like an adult live by those decisions. And the reason why I'm not going to do anything is because....


London is practically FINISHED!!!! The trip is in the bag. Everything has been set and confirmed. I got an email from the school Friday afternoon saying that I actually got accepted for housing (yay!) and that everything on that front is said and done. And I just went and looked into my Grad PLUS loan from CFNC (you know, the bitches that didn't want to give to me the first time and made me get the runaround?) and the loan was APPROVED May 12th and both loans are now awaiting certification from Roehampton. So that means when they certify in July, they're going to get $34,000.00 in my name for school there and after everything has been paid for, I'm going to get the remainder which I'll use to eat off of and live in general. So yeah once July comes around, that will be fantastic and it will be a nice return-home gift from Costa Rica. Speaking of which...


That's progressing nicely. I just paid them the $100.00 deposit and I've sent them a nice thick stack of papers that I filled out for the beginner part of the trip. Now I need to get my passport (which I should have today from my parents) and get the rest of the money for the trip which several members of VETS have graciously given to, as a matter of fact I'm nearly 1/2 way to my goal of $400.00 now. So that should be fine.


I'm not sure what I'm going to do about leaving as of yet, since Shirley the HR supervisor has told me that they can't extend people for less than 30 days and if I do take the extension it pushes me to Aug. 29th and I'd have to find a place to go and get that all set up. I'm thinking what I'm going to do is book a room at a hotel for just a flat month and just live out of that as I'm getting the last few paychecks from this job and that will actually allow me to save quite a bit of money if I do it that way but it's just a matter of getting the extension. One step at a time.


I actually talked to Michael the other day. Rememeber him? Michael from Vanderbuilt, the cute guy that was flirting heavily with me and was going to let me come and visit but then backed out? Yeah....that Michael. He is engaged now. Ugh. So some dude from El Salvador. I didn't handle that situation very well considering that I had just been rejected by Cole the week before. Not a good combination. But I talked to him and remained alive, so that helped.


I ended up hanging out with Chris Dicken yesterday, and I haven't seen him since like September or even longer. It was good to see him and he hasn't changed a bit since the last time we spoke. He's still the same ole Chris which is good. I needed that. We just hung out and chatted and watched Girlfriends and Absolutely Fabulous, neither of which I used to watch but they were pretty funny.


So for now, that's all on the front. We'll have to see what this week brings...

Saturday 2 May 2009

Ow. This Hurts.

Hi darcee, I'm sorry if I ended up hurting your feelings... I just always thought things were understood between us. I'm still in love with joey, regardless of where things end up and I thought I was talking to you as a friend who understood... If I ever made it seem like it was something else, then I'm sorry. I thought you opened up to me as a friend even though I know you did have feelings, I just always thought things were ridiculously impossible, me still being in love with joey, us being on opposite sides of the country... it was never an idea in my head. I am sorry, though.

-Cole.

Ugh. How dare you.

Friday 1 May 2009

And To Your Right, Ladies and Gentlemen, A Train Wreck in Slow Motion...

And one of those trains is undoubtedly myself, and the other would have to be Cole. This situation is turning out to be completely hopeless. As a matter of fact, it is hopeless. I'm through with this. He says he's done with Joey one minute but pines and whines about how much he needs/wants him. I guess even though he thinks like a 30 year old, he's just 19. Or now, 20 since his birthday was the other day. I knew better than that, true. But I just wanted to see if I could push the envelope just a little. I did. I shoved it, and it felt good. Maybe once I get more practice, I'll get better. But for now, I'm just gonna drop Cole before he decides to make me upset. And Ii'm already getting there. How sad is that?